If you are having relationship problems at home or at work, I can help. Come talk to me. Email me. Call me. Your first 1/2 hour is free. Let’s talk.
Together, we will have the confidential, respectful conversations that lead to the new agreements you need to resolving relationship problems healthily and recover from relationship problems wisely.
Whether you are focused on improving your relationship, or ending it, my clients say that my expertise, experience and calm presence provides them with the safety they need to talk about and work through difficult things and difficult times.
“I invite you to work with me because I know you will feel so much better about yourself, your relationship and your choices.
I know that mediation is a powerful process for creating new pathways to successful interaction while putting old issues to rest. Couples who work with me are ready to bring their focus to their relationship. Whether they are seeking the peace to move towards one another, or seeking a peaceful, equitable way to move on from one another, the resulting settlements save them substantial time, energy, expense, anxiety, and stress. It’s the wise way to determine the next best steps in your relationship. “
- Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, Peace Catalyst | Counselor | Mediator
Do not wait for a crisis! This is a mistake many people make in their relationships.
Waiting for crisis mediation seriously complicates the issues. Emotions become high, and often, entrenched. Unnecessary stands are taken, held, and protected, often without understanding, clarity or honest communication. You can instantly see that mediation is the wise choice when it is clear that an issue is truly an issue and not a passing inequity.
If you have strong differences of opinion or values, or if you have very different temperament or processing styles, it is wise to invite that expert “neutral” to mediate your conversations. That will lead you to solutions, resolutions and agreements that will once again provide stability to the relationship, even if the mediated settlement is the decision to part ways. That, too,
is stability.
Dr. Rhoberta Shaler founded Sow Peace® International to encourage and support individuals to resolve relationship problems at home and at work through facilitated conversations called mediation.
A peace catalyst and professional mediator, she works with couples, families, partners and workplace teams to focus on agreements that clarify, understand and settle relationships, issues, situations and conditions.
Read her blog post on Why Mediation is a Good Idea
Conflict is inevitable.
Combat can leave you dead right,
but, dead nonetheless!
Mediation creates clarity, communication & collaboration to live with new agreements.– Rhoberta Shaler, PhD
OUR MEDIATION SERVICES INCLUDE:
- Relationship Mediation • Marriage Mediation • Couples Mediation
- Divorce & Separation Mediation
- General Conflict Mediation
- Family Mediation
- Co-Habitation & Pre-Marital Mediation
- Workplace & Team Mediation
- ElderCare Mediation
Call Dr. Rhoberta Shaler and her team to discuss the specific outcomes you would like to create.
We can work in person in our office, in your office, at a neutral location in your community, or on the telephone.
The Optimize Center – 760.747.8686
350 West 9th Avenue, Suite 101.
Escondido, CA 92025
Email: Grow@SowPeace.com





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