Personal Growth

Get Celebrating!

Get Celebrating!

At the risk of sounding cliché, I’m going to ask – Why do we wait for a designated holiday to start celebrating? I know the daily grind sometimes doesn’t seem like a lot to celebrate about, but when you really consider it, isn’t the fact that you’re breathing in and out worth celebrating?! I...

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Transforming your new year…

Transforming your new year…

My one word theme for 2010 was “receptivity.” And, what an amazing year it has been! I have been receptive to many things: ideas, guidance, love, money, possibilities and opportunities. So much has changed including the opportunity to buy a new house and create a home that I love and will love for a...

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Sow Peace this holiday season… and beyond.

As the holidays draw nearer, the idea of Peace becomes more and more visible in everyday North American life. Sadly, it only seems to last the season, then far too many people forget about it. Take a moment and make a conscious decision – and declaration – to REMEMBER to sow peace, this holiday...

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You are that powerful.

You are that powerful.

What do you expect? That is a powerful beginning! If you can grasp the power of your expectations, you are on your way to changing your life. You are that powerful.

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Are we living by someone else’s standards? Big question…

Are we living by someone else’s standards?  Big question…

Last night, in our open group discussion, it came up that we always have the choice to truly be ourselves. That sounds so obvious, but it really isn’t. What came up as we shared was that it is difficult to be true to your own values, vision, beliefs and purpose when others want you...

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Was that an embarrassing moment?

Was that an embarrassing moment?

© Rhoberta Shaler, PhD www.Rhoberta.com Technology has glitches. What a surprise! It is inevitable due to the complexity of code, bandwidth and other mystical contributing factors. That’s a given. OK, so, that said, a few days ago some of the seemingly million pieces of technology we use to keep our seventy-plus websites with all...

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How is my relationship growing?

Learning how to establish and maintain a loving, supportive relationship is much like creating a beautiful garden. It takes information, planning, thought, skill, time, and most of all, attention.

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What do you mean you “have a right?”

What do you mean you “have a right?”

© Rhoberta Shaler, PhD www.Rhoberta.com I was working with a couple recently who are having big questions about staying together. At the moment, their relationship is like a teeter-totter: one is up, the other down but seldom is there equilibrium and a meeting in the middle. As we worked through one of the myriad...

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Your Day of Peace

So, here we are on the United Nations declared “International Day of Peace”. How are you participating? What will you do – today – to make a contribution to peace, knowing that for the reality of peace in the world to occur, we must each first find peace in ourselves, in our families, in...

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Peace in the world is only possible when you sow peace in your world

Peace in the world is only possible when you sow peace in your world

Are you creating world peace in your world? If not, it is highly unlikely that it will be found anywhere else. Think on these thing....

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